Cheating changes the dynamic of a relationship as well as destroys the bond of two people. In some cases, it’s difficult to recuperate.
Most of the time, we heard men cheat on their partner a lot than women. In stats, more men than women have confessed to having affairs after getting married. Studies also show that 60% of men are more likely to cheat on their partner, compared to women having only 45% in rate. But now it’s equally likely among men and women. Perhaps, the percentages of women who cheat are almost reaching the percentages of men due to having been obliged to work.
Women are known for being gentle, loving, caring, kind-hearted and exquisite, but why some of them are tempted to cheat on their partners? What are the reasons that make them do such things that are totally unacceptable in a relationship?
1. She’s being ignored.
When you ignore your girlfriend, she may feel disconnected from you. She may feel unloved, unimportant and think that she’s just an option to you. Time is one of the most important factors in a relationship. In this busy world, it’s easy to overlook the value of quality time with the person you chose to spend your life with. For some men who think that just giving their time is enough, not so for women. They are typically looking for a deeper connection or some sort of magical moments when you’re spending the time together.
2. She fell in love with someone else.
When you ignore your girlfriend, she may feel distant and unable to communicate with you. Yet, she developed a strong bond with a co-worker whom she can share all sorts of intimacies that her partner either wouldn’t or wouldn’t have time for. Over time, she may develop an intimate feeling and desire to test drive the relationship to alternate to her existing relationship.
3. She’s not treated well.
Everything on earth needs to be treated in a right way, especially your girlfriend. Besides, no women want to be physically or verbally abused. While there’s no such thing as perfect relationship and there were tough times every now and then, it’s important to demonstrate respect and avoid expressing harsh and abusive words during arguments. As for girls, when their partners inevitably fail them to meet their needs and are not treating them well, they will seek care and attention elsewhere.
4. She wants more.
If you are in a relationship, especially in a long-term relationship, certain things that were once exciting later become boring if you are doing them over and over again. Perhaps, your girl expects more from your relationship. She’d wanted to try new things, new adventures and new experiences. If you’re a guy who can’t support her interest, she will find it to someone else.
5. Lost sex interest.
Most girlfriends are unfaithful because they often feel sexually deprived. When she feels that you no longer find her charming or already lost your sexual interest on her, she will look into these things from other guy to prove herself that she’s still has that romantic and sexual appeal.
Every relationship deserves a second chance. Every human deserves a second chance. People make mistakes, but mistakes can be made right. We just have to learn how to forgive, accept and never get tired of loving. When it comes to cheating, no matter her reason, if you doubt whether this person is right for you or not, then the relationship probably won’t work.